House Rules

Venue Rules 

  • You are responsible for your belongings. Be aware of your items whereabouts and any risk associated with leaving them unattended. 
  • Alcohol is BYO and responsible self serve. If you are seen to be drinking excessively or there is concern for your ability to make informed choices then you will be asked to leave by staff. You will not get a refund on your ticket price. 
  • Privacy and discretion are priority. All information about attendees’ names and activities are kept confidential by staff. We expect this to be the same between attendees. 
  • No smoking inside the venue.
  • Be prepared with something to cover yourself when going outside the event space to smoke or leave for the evening. 

Consent is key 

  • You must gain consent before touching any person, their toys, clothes, whips, floggers etc 
  • Consent is based on a particular scene or act at a specific time. 
  • If you are drunk you can not provide consent. If a DM is concerned about your ability to consent they can and will intervene. 
  • Negotiate all scenes and potential risks before engaging in any scene. 
  • As part of your pre-scene negotiations agree to a safe word. 
  • Ensure your partner/s are aware of your limits and any mental or physical illness that could impact on your scene. Or how to provide adequate aftercare to accomodate. 
  • Its OK to say No. Any concerns regarding this can be brought to a DM. 
  • Do not use cameras / phone cameras without consent. You must first ensure that your play partner is aware that you are taking a photo and that you have their consent to this PRIOR to the scene commencing. 

Nocte standard safe words are the "traffic lights" - Green, Yellow, Red. With the addition of Blue. 

Green = Good / Yellow = Change it up but Im ok / Red = Immediate stop / Blue = Immediate stop and need medical assistance. 

Respect 

  • Respect is expected. 
  • Respect active scenes by not getting involved without an invitation. 
  • Do not call out into a scene from the side lines. It is disrespectful. 
  • Do not assume that a persons presence at an event means that they are available to you.  
  • Respect the event space. Clean up after yourself with the supplies  provided. No on wants to play in your mess. 
  • Use a provided drop sheet for any messy play. 
  • Do not block entries or exits. 
  • Do not crowd into a space to watch a scene. If the room is full move on.
  • Limit conversation in play areas and do not be loudwhile others are within a scene. 

Dungeon Monitors (DMs) 

  • If you are new and would like a walk through please ask one of our friendly DMs.
  • DMs must be informed if you are about to engge in any high risk scene; such as Blood Play, Primal Wrestling, Needle Play etc). 
  • DMs can and will enquire about and/or stop a scene if they feel it is unsafe or abusive. They would rather be wrong than allow a scene to continue into an abusive situation.
  • A DMs word is final. If they are unsure they will seek with either of the 2 owners who can confirm the course of action to be undertaken. 
  • You can speak with a DM if you have any concerns regarding another persons behaviour.
  • If you are unsure about anything please ask a DM for advice. 

Avoiding being Vetted

The email you receive confirming your ticket is for your use only & not to be shared with others. This is also the case for the password to purchase tickets. If we find a ticket purchase that does not correspond with our vetting list then that person will be banned from that and all future events. 

Dress Code 

We enforce a 'fetish' dress code (Smart, black and neat for males if you're unsure). Street clothes are not acceptable attire for an event. We understand that you may not wish to arrive in your fetish attire,  therefore you may change into your outfit upon arrival. If you do not have appropriate attire to arrive in or change into you will be asked to leave by staff with no refund.